Wednesday, July 1, 2009

The Beginning

7/2009 - Kreg and I have decided to take another step in building our family. We have decided to adopt. We have, as many of you know, had trouble with conceiving any more children. The best way to describe the past 2 1/2 years is what happens in the grieving process: denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. Well, we are in the acceptance stage and have decided to move on a different path. We have researched domestic, foster, and international adoptions for the past couple of months. We've also researched different organizations to go through with adoption. We've read books and talked to people who have adopted. We've been waiting for a "sign" and we have decided on adopting from Ethiopia. One comment from a staff member at Bethany Christian Services was this, "Children in Ethiopia are waiting for a family compared to a family waiting for a child." We would like a baby under 2 years of age. We do not have a gender preference. You don't get to choose when you're pregnant so we didn't want to choose here either. We are also open to a sibling group. We just finished our paperwork last week and are now waiting for our home visits with a social worker. This will be a very long process but we are definitely ready for this next step in our lives. Please pray for us while we take on this journey. We'd like for you to take this journey with us by visiting our blog and keeping up-to-date on our progress.


5 comments:

Unknown said...

How cool! I will join you guys in prayer through this process. Thanks for sharing this with us!
The VanDerVeens

Toby Ward said...

Hey Stacey!
Great idea with the blog. It will be so awesome to be able to look back on. Hopefully you'll get a chance to check ours out too.

Remember, we'll be there for you & Kraig every step of the way!

Jeff and Rebecca Steigenga said...

Very cool! I will pray that God blesses you with the perfect child or children for your family. I will also pray that you will have patience through the process.

The Crump Family said...

Kreg, Stac & Kendal-
We are so excited for you guys as you begin this next journey in your lives. God has a plan for you and for the little bundle that will be a part of your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you begin the adoption process. Let us know if you need anything. You guys are already great parents and you will be great parents to this little one also....Kendal will be such a great big sister too. Praying for you all.
We love you,
The Crump Family

Sarah Le Febre said...

Hi Guys!
That is so awesome! My sister just brought home her little guy from Ethiopa and man is he cute. I look forward to telling you about her journey.
We will be praying for you!
Matt and Sarah, Thaddaeus, Libby and Ahava Le Febre